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Giving Tuesday 2023

The Meaning Behind Giving Tuesday

Giving Tuesday, (#GivingTuesday) began in 2012 in response to the commercialization of the holiday season. It is a powerful reminder that the true essence of the season is about giving. This global day of generosity encourages people to contribute to charitable organizations, volunteer their time, and lend a helping hand to others.

Autism Connection of Pennsylvania: A Lifeline and Hub for Families and Adults

Autism affects millions of families worldwide. Autism Connection of PA is a non-profit dedicated to supporting autistic people and their families in Pennsylvania. Founded in 1996, Autism Connection has been at the forefront of the autism community, offering support, information, and advocacy.

The Impact of Giving Tuesday: Autism Connection of PA’s Key Initiatives

Get Involved

As Giving Tuesday approaches, Autism Connection of Pennsylvania relies on the generosity of individuals, businesses, and communities to continue our vital work. Donations on this special day can make a significant difference in the lives of those affected by autism. Involvement doesn’t always translate into monetary donations. Sharing your experience, connecting with others, offering help, or simply spreading the word about our work can have a huge impact.

You Can Make a Difference

On Giving Tuesday, let’s rally support Autism Connection of Pennsylvania and the community we serve. By donating, volunteering, and spreading the word, we can contribute to a brighter and more inclusive future. Together, we can make a difference and embody the true spirit of the holiday season – the spirit of giving.

Who Will Do the Laundry? The Double Empathy Problem

The Double Empathy Problem

“The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn’t being said.” – Peter Drucker

The double empathy problem posits that difficulties in social interaction are not solely the responsibility of the autistic person, but also result from a lack of understanding and empathy from people who are not autistic.

Explaining the double empathy problem poses its own challenges, so I’m quite literally illustrating the concept with a question: Who will do the laundry?

Who Will Do the Laundry?

Autistic grief is authentic, deeply felt, almost tangible. And it can manifest in a way that can be baffling to non-autistics. We have seen this when someone on the spectrum receives news of the loss of a parent or caretaker. “Who will do the laundry?” is a type of question a person on the spectrum may ask. It can seem pragmatic, almost unfeeling, but it is a distilled expression of grief concentrated into an overwhelming question.

Difficult to explain, so I’ll illustrate.

Years ago, a close friend who is not on the autism spectrum talked about the loss of his mother to breast cancer when he was 11 years old. Her death was an abrupt devastation. When he spoke about the experience, he formed descriptions of being snuck into her hospital room for brief visits, and even with her deteriorating state, he thought that she would eventually come home.

She never did. But the feeling of her possibly returning lingered. “I remember the moment I truly understood that she wasn’t coming back. I went to the basement to find my father standing next to piles of laundry. His head was bent. He was sobbing. And I knew that I would never see her again.”

Who will do the laundry?

Charcoal drawing of grief stricken man standing next to a washer and dryer

This is how the question Who will do the laundry? feels.

An Overwhelming Question

Who will do the laundry? is an expression of grief concentrated into a plea that really captures the questions, “What is life without them? How do I go on?”. When an autistic person demonstrates grief in this concrete form, a non-autistic person may perceive a lack of empathy. In turn, the autistic mourner may feel that others have no empathy for their despair, depending on their reaction to the overwhelming question.

My friend’s description of the laundry room scene illustrates his father deeply grieving with echoes of Who will do the laundry? quietly implied. In both cases, it’s not about the laundry. It is about the loss.

Tammi Morton, Director of Operations

Late Diagnosis Autism Support Group Meeting

Virtual support group meeting for adults diagnosed on the autism spectrum later in life. This meeting is open to people who believe they are autistic, and don’t know where to turn for help.

Register Here

Gingerbread Man Running Company’s Labor Day Run for Autism Connection

Gingerbread Man Running Company presents the Labor Day Half Marathon on MONDAY September 4, 2023, that will benefit Autism Connection of Pennsylvania. A portion of the race proceeds will benefit ACOP.

They have events for the whole family. Runners can take on our half marathon course, 10k, or 5k.

Registration and parking will take place at the Youngwood Fire Department, with a short walk to the race start.

Race day registration will be through Run Sign Up only. No paper registrations accepted the day of the event.

Register Here!

The course will take place on the 5 Star Trail, connecting roads, and the wooded trail near WCCC.

Half Marathon Course: http://www.gmap-pedometer.com/gp/bookmark/view/id/7388658

10k Course: http://www.gmap-pedometer.com/gp/bookmark/view/id/7388726

5k Course: http://www.gmap-pedometer.com/gp/bookmark/view/id/7388688

There is a 3 1/2-hour cap on the half marathon and 10K, so both courses are a run-only course. Participants may walk or run the 5k course. Awards will go to the fastest time for runners. There are no separate awards for walkers.

The Half Marathon begins at 7:30, followed by the 5k and 10k shortly after. You must be registered by 8/15/2023 to be guaranteed race materials. Late registrations will be offered a water bottle or a shirt from previous year events. Half marathon participants will also receive a finisher medal. Awards will be given to the overall male/female finishers and the top age group finishers for each event.

Packet pickup information will be emailed a week before the race and posted on the Facebook event page.

Aktion Club: Where Development has No Disability

Volunteering provides opportunities to give back to our communities, and it helps us to feel involved with those in our communities. However, how do you know which volunteer opportunities work best for you? This question can pose significant difficulty for some individuals with disabilities as organizations may not feel equipped to work with people with special needs in a volunteer capacity. However, Aktion Club creates a safe space with opportunities for service where people with disabilities make the decisions and lead the club.

Three women posing for the camera. Two are kneeling beside a woman in a wheelchair

Taking leadership roles, making decisions, building autonomy

Three Rivers Community Care has been working with the Kiwanis Club of Sheraden to start an Aktion Club for anyone who is interested. This blog post will provide some answers to some Frequently Asked Questions about the club and we also hope that you’ll join us for an information session about Aktion Club on August 22 at 7 pm at the 3RCC Community Center in Carnegie.

Register online here.

What is Aktion Club?

Aktion Club is a service leadership program through Kiwanis International. It is the ONLY service organization of its kind in the world. Our club will be sponsored/supported by the Kiwanis Club of Sheraden. Aktion Club provides adults with disabilities the opportunity to participate in and choose service projects/volunteer projects with their peers/other group members.

Who runs Aktion Club?

Aktion Club will be supported by a member of the Kiwanis Club of Sheraden and a staff member of 3RCC. However, members will make up the leadership roles including president, vice president, secretary, treasurer, etc. of the club. Members will also make all decisions regarding club projects and activities.

Do members have to have a support person attend meetings with them?

This depends on the individual, requirements of their Individual Service Plan (ISP), and their comfort level in community situations. While a site facilitator and Kiwanis representative will always be present, each member and their caregivers should consider what is best for them.

When/how often/where will meetings be held?

Meetings are held monthly and will take place at the 3RCC Community Center in Carnegie, PA. Dates and times will be determined once we have enough members for the charter and will be based completely around their availability. We hope to have our first meeting in September/October.

Three photos of people doing different interactive activities

Connecting with others through shared interests

What kind of service projects/volunteer projects will members participate in?

Members will decide what service projects and volunteer activities they wish to participate in. They can range from making cards for veterans at the VA hospital, to food drives, to volunteering time at the Salvation Army or cleaning up litter in our communities. The possibilities are endless and the site facilitator and Kiwanis representative will work to ensure that all members interested in participating have the opportunity.

Is there a cost to participate?

There is no fee unless the members decide to charge a membership dues that would be used to help cover costs for materials or for fun activities for the club such as a summer ice cream party or a holiday party in December.

What are the benefits of Aktion Club membership?

Aktion Club members achieve a wealth of benefits including leadership and decision making opportunities. Members run the club and vote for president, vice president, and other leadership roles among their peers. Through service projects, volunteer projects, and club meetings members gain valuable social and community interactions to help increase their feelings of confidence in the community and feelings of self worth.

We hope this answers some of your questions about Aktion Club and that you consider joining us on August 22 at 7 pm to learn even more.

If you want to join Aktion Club you can email your information to Molly. You can learn more about Aktion Club here .

–Molly Crawford

Interim Outreach Director

Three Rivers Community Care

Gingerbread Man Running Company’s Labor Day Run for Autism Connection

Gingerbread Man Running Company presents the Labor Day Half Marathon on MONDAY September 4, 2023, that will benefit Autism Connection of Pennsylvania. A portion of the race proceeds will benefit ACOP.

They have events for the whole family. Runners can take on our half marathon course, 10k, or 5k.

Registration and parking will take place at the Youngwood Fire Department, with a short walk to the race start.

Race day registration will be through Run Sign Up only. No paper registrations accepted the day of the event.

Register Here!

The course will take place on the 5 Star Trail, connecting roads, and the wooded trail near WCCC.

Half Marathon Course: http://www.gmap-pedometer.com/gp/bookmark/view/id/7388658

10k Course: http://www.gmap-pedometer.com/gp/bookmark/view/id/7388726

5k Course: http://www.gmap-pedometer.com/gp/bookmark/view/id/7388688

There is a 3 1/2-hour cap on the half marathon and 10K, so both courses are a run-only course. Participants may walk or run the 5k course. Awards will go to the fastest time for runners. There are no separate awards for walkers.

The Half Marathon begins at 7:30, followed by the 5k and 10k shortly after. You must be registered by 8/15/2023 to be guaranteed race materials. Late registrations will be offered a water bottle or a shirt from previous year events. Half marathon participants will also receive a finisher medal. Awards will be given to the overall male/female finishers and the top age group finishers for each event.

Packet pickup information will be emailed a week before the race and posted on the Facebook event page.

Starting and Strengthening a Self Advocacy Group: SATIN

Interested in starting a Self-Advocacy group? Join SAU1 to learn how you can start or strengthen your support group! Self-Advocacy is about speaking up for the life that you want.

How to Join

For video and audio by computer or smartphone, get the passcode from Rita anytime before the event!
Call 724 588 2378 or Email [email protected]

The day of the event, go online at sau1.me/zoom then enter the passcode or join right from SAU1’s events calendar at sau1.me/events and enter the passcode.

For just audio from any phone: dial 646 876 9923, then meeting ID: 223 344 5555 ##

All events are scheduled for Eastern Time and close captioned for those using vide a a