A Very Different Holiday Season

As a mom of a teen with autism, modifying holiday plans is nothing new. This year brings its own set of challenges though. Here are some guidelines/tips we hope are helpful for you.

  • Establish your comfort level
    With COVID numbers on the rise, how willing are you to host or attend a large holiday gathering? Set your limits early and communicate them with your friends and family. Whatever you decide is your decision and totally ok. Do not be afraid to stand your ground with people who do not agree with you.
  • If you choose to have visitors in your home
    Let your guests know your expectations. Do you prefer an outdoor gathering with social distancing? Will masks be required? Make sure to still let your loved one with autism know they can opt to retreat to their safe place if changes are overwhelming.
  • Prepare for changes
    Do you have holiday traditions that may not be open this year? Are you traveling where masks will be required? Now is the time to let your loved one with autism know about these changes. Create a simple social story. Show a video about mask wearing <insert our mask video here>. Be sure to let them know that however they feel about these changes it ok.
  • Try to look for the silver lining
    Sometimes simplifying can be fun and easier. Take this year to enjoy the quiet and a break from the usual holiday hustle and bustle. Be sure to explain that this is a temporary situation, and that if we follow the rules now, it will help everyone later.

As always if you have questions or concerns, please contact us. We’re here for you for all of your needs.